"He exudes confidence."
Such is the common phrase used to describe an uncommon variety of man. What exactly does it mean to "exude"? Does it mean confidence pours out of the pores of their skin? No, of course not. It means their mannerisms suggest confidence.
I have been trying to post often -- sometimes daily -- on civility in public discussion, and I think to hurry out a thought on this tonight.
The absence of confidence is fear. It, too, "exudes." I'm told dogs can smell fear, but don't know whether that is true.
I do know, though, people can sense it. Fear rubs people the wrong way. An edgy, nervous type attracts suspicion. It is harder to be congenial, harder to convey a spirit of friendliness, if you are fearful. If you would convey goodness, make friends, and offer goodwill, put fears aside. Being confident can lend to civility.
As the scripture says, "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." (II Timothy 1:7)
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